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Saturday, 18 July 2009

  • How do I love thee ..

    .. let me count the ways.

    "I love you so much." (ie, I feel good when I'm around you)
    ".. but I LOVE YOU!" (ie, I'll feel horrible if you leave me)
    "Love ya." (I consider you a friend)
    *cold cruel* "I'm doing this out of love." (ie, just stand there while I beat you)
    "Because I LOVE YOU!" *outburst* (ie, you're obligated to me because I love you)
    *desperate whisper* "I love you" (ie, I'm desperate for you to tell me you love ME!)
    "I LOVED you!" (ie, you did me a horrible injustice) (implication: if I love you, you owe me certain treatment)
    "Oh, I mean I still love her, but .." (ie, I'm loving out of duty)
    "I know I should love him, but .." (ie, love is an obligation)
    "I love him so much it hurts!" (ie, HUGEMONGOUS attraction)
    *on trial for stalking* "I did it because I love him!" (ie, love is obsessive infatuation)
    "I LOVE that show!" (ie, I really enjoy something)
    "The plant needs love." (ie, love is something you can give)
    "You can't love two people at once." (ie, love has a limited quantity)
    "Honey, will you take the garbage out?" (ie, love is an action)
    "If you loved me, you would ..!" (ie, I want you to do something)
    *clingy* "Do you love me?" (ie, I'm fishing for approval)
    "Haha! I love it!" (ie, I'm delighted!)
    "Oooh, I LOVE when you do that." (ie, that turns me on)
    "I love you more than anything in this world." (ie, love has a quantity)
    "Love hurts." (ie, if you don't get what you love it's painful) (implication: love means WANTING something)
    "I love you where there is no space and time." (ie, love is not of this world)
    "As you wish." (ie, TRUE LOVE. Or maybe To Bluff, who can say.)


    Any others?

Tuesday, 14 July 2009

  • The End of the Family

    Osho has some interesting ideas about the family:

    "Everybody should get divorced. Without exception."
    "I would like marriage to disappear completely from the world."
    "Family is an ugly institution .. it's time it's over."


    LOL @ Osho.

    I agree with him. The concept of a family unit, and some of the attached concepts like ownership of and dominance over the children in the family by the adults, is undesirable. The idea that you are kin to some people, and thus not kin to others, is undesirable. This whole idea of responsibility to stay in a relationship through thick and thin is frankly bizarre. The idea of responsibility to stay together "for the children" is a bit absurd. I sometimes wonder what society would look like without this concept of family at the heart of it. I like the idea of communal raising of children. In fact I've met people who put this into practice. I think this could go hand-in-hand with some welcome diversity in models of relationships: ie, a new judgement model in which same-sex relationships, and polyamorous relationships are recognized and accepted as valid.

    Any visions of how society would change if this were to happen?

Friday, 26 June 2009

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